Things That You Should Know When You’re Dating An Alpha Female

What is an Alpha Female?

“The Alpha Female is a strong, majestic female. She can often be intimidating to those around her and isn’t afraid to ask for what she wants. She’s killing it in her career and has a solid group of friends to rely on. There’s nothing quite as brilliant as a woman with confidence and ambition.” – Elite Daily

Here are the things that you should know when you’re dating one:

1. She’s a strong woman

She fends for herself and has the ability to quickly get up on her own feet, she gets things done and knows what she wants and she knows how to get it, even without your help because she’s determined AF.

2. Get ready to feel emasculated sometimes

Since she is a strong woman, she won’t easily back down on a fight. Especially if she knows that she is right, she has debate skill man and she’s not afraid to use it on you. She has the upper hand in her life and she most definitely want to have it in a fight where she knows that she’s right and you’re the one who’s wrong, but she does know when to step down.

3. She talks no BS

She will tell you EXACTLY what she thinks, what she wants, what she needs and what she feels. Most of the time she won’t leave you guessing what you did to get her angry or jealous or when you’ve made her so happy and feel so loved.

4. She can be intimidating

She’s not like most girls that you’ve dated and sometimes that can seem a threat to you because you can’t easily woo her the way you do with the other chicks, but chill she does get swoon, you just have to look for the right spot.

5. She’s independent and not used to someone spending on her

Excuse her for this one, if you’re out on a date and she asks to split the bill, just do. And please don’t feel offended if you give her a gift and she says “It’s too much, I can’t accept this” because she’s not use to other people spending on her, just give it some time she will eventually let you treat her and hey, she’ll treat you out and give you gifts too.

6. She takes initiative

She’s not afraid to make the first move, most especially if she really wants it.

7. She will be your support system

She will listen to you and support you in everything that you do, she’s going to be your personal cheerleader and she will always have your back.

8. She wants you

At some point, you may feel that she doesn’t need you because she’s capable of so many things and can accomplish most anything on her own and frankly she may really not, but that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want you in her life, that she doesn’t want to share the peaks and valleys with you. She loves you that’s why you’re together, you’re the man that made her say yes, when many guys received her no.

Hindi Kasi Pwede

Pinilit kasi natin ang hindi pwede,  ayan tuloy nasaktan tayo,  ayan tuloy nagsisi tayo.

Minsan iniisip ko bakit nga ba natin pinaglaban? Ahh, naalala ko na,  kasi nagsumpaan tayo sa isa’t isa na tatapusin nating dalawa ang laban,  ayan natapos nga natin pati naman tayo natapos din.

Pero okay lang kasi nalaman ko na naman na hindi pala tayo para sa isa’t isa, na ang sumpaan natin ay puwang na mga salita lamang. Ang mga pangarap natin ay puwang na mga kathang isip lamang,  ang mga lugar na pinuntahan at balak natin puntahan ay puwang na mga lugar lamang. Ang mga kanta, tula at mga regalo ay puwang na mga kanta, tula at bagay lamang. Lahat sila ay dapat hindi ko bigyan ng kabuluhan or halaga kasi nga ganun lang sila, nagkataon lang na may ‘tayo’ pa nun kaya ayan, ako si tanga na hindi matanggal ang mga halaga nila.

Siguro iniisip mo, saan ako patungo? Kasi ang gulo gulo ko, dami kong sinasabi. Sasabihin wala na tayo tapos ieexplain ko bakit pero magpapahiwatig akong gusto pa kita, na gusto ko ulit may “tayo”.

Pero sorry na, patawarin mo na ako. Di ko naman sinasadyang may hangover pa ako. Huwag ka magalala, mawawawala na rin lahat ng mga ito….

 

 

Kasabay ko….